Thank you HAHAHA
I realise, yea, I am really blessed with amazing people. People who really have my back and stand up for me. They are small gestures but not insignificant. Though yes, the cause isn't a great thing, but it's okay. That's how friendship works I guess. Sometimes you care too much to the point where you end up hurting each other more. Or end up saying stuffs that you don't really mean it. Or get frustrated over the most mindless things.
And worry. Worry about things that haven''t happened yet. I know that the future is pretty scary and unknown. And many things can change and I'm sure it definitely will change. But sometimes, we have to have stronger faith that despite all the changes, some things will still remain the same. If not, better. Even if it doesn't, it isn't the end of the world. People grow, life happens. Why worry so much about things that haven't happened yet when you can be instead enjoying the moment?
And while enjoying the present, truly enjoy it. Be present. When you meet up with people, enjoy the moment with them. Don't remember and harp on things that already happened. Because they were already gone. Holding grudges is some thing that I truly do not think anyone should be doing. True, sometimes you do it without knowing. I will be lying if I say I never hold grudges at all. But I'll make an effort to refrain from it. Because the only person who is unhappy when you hold grudges is yourself. So why make yourself unhappy?
I believe we decide what makes us happy. Fate and circumstances don't decide that for us. Yes, it's okay to feel sad and annoyed and angry at times. Because we are only human. We are supposed to feel all emotions. But always remember to get past those feelings after that. That life is truly more than that.
And always be thankful to the people who have got your back. Because as much as I hate to say it, it truly is rare to find them in this big big world. I know I am freaking blessed to have them in my life. So remember and don't ever take them for granted. Because freaking hell they are human too. They feel too. They are not robots. They don't do stuffs based on doing stuffs. They do stuffs because they want to. They get tired too. They are not obliged to do every single thing but they are doing it because they want to. And they also know that if they don't do it, no one else will. So appreciate them.
(I think I have some personal angst here but just go with it)
And I guess when you decide to do something, follow through with it. Don't stop halfway. It annoys me terribly because I know it's group effort and stuffs, but you don't just stop planning because you think you have already done your part. That that's it. I'm only contribute to this point, other people should contribute too. I mean yea, other people should contribute too. But at least follow through with it. Make sure that someone else is really contributing.
Anyway, I guess what I'm trying to say is that I'm just really glad that at the end of the day, I know there are people who will really support me and have my back. It may sound simple and stuffs. But it's truly a nice feeling when you know that there are people who will really stand up and look out for you. So yes, thank you for giving me your support.
I realise, yea, I am really blessed with amazing people. People who really have my back and stand up for me. They are small gestures but not insignificant. Though yes, the cause isn't a great thing, but it's okay. That's how friendship works I guess. Sometimes you care too much to the point where you end up hurting each other more. Or end up saying stuffs that you don't really mean it. Or get frustrated over the most mindless things.
And worry. Worry about things that haven''t happened yet. I know that the future is pretty scary and unknown. And many things can change and I'm sure it definitely will change. But sometimes, we have to have stronger faith that despite all the changes, some things will still remain the same. If not, better. Even if it doesn't, it isn't the end of the world. People grow, life happens. Why worry so much about things that haven't happened yet when you can be instead enjoying the moment?
And while enjoying the present, truly enjoy it. Be present. When you meet up with people, enjoy the moment with them. Don't remember and harp on things that already happened. Because they were already gone. Holding grudges is some thing that I truly do not think anyone should be doing. True, sometimes you do it without knowing. I will be lying if I say I never hold grudges at all. But I'll make an effort to refrain from it. Because the only person who is unhappy when you hold grudges is yourself. So why make yourself unhappy?
I believe we decide what makes us happy. Fate and circumstances don't decide that for us. Yes, it's okay to feel sad and annoyed and angry at times. Because we are only human. We are supposed to feel all emotions. But always remember to get past those feelings after that. That life is truly more than that.
And always be thankful to the people who have got your back. Because as much as I hate to say it, it truly is rare to find them in this big big world. I know I am freaking blessed to have them in my life. So remember and don't ever take them for granted. Because freaking hell they are human too. They feel too. They are not robots. They don't do stuffs based on doing stuffs. They do stuffs because they want to. They get tired too. They are not obliged to do every single thing but they are doing it because they want to. And they also know that if they don't do it, no one else will. So appreciate them.
(I think I have some personal angst here but just go with it)
And I guess when you decide to do something, follow through with it. Don't stop halfway. It annoys me terribly because I know it's group effort and stuffs, but you don't just stop planning because you think you have already done your part. That that's it. I'm only contribute to this point, other people should contribute too. I mean yea, other people should contribute too. But at least follow through with it. Make sure that someone else is really contributing.
Anyway, I guess what I'm trying to say is that I'm just really glad that at the end of the day, I know there are people who will really support me and have my back. It may sound simple and stuffs. But it's truly a nice feeling when you know that there are people who will really stand up and look out for you. So yes, thank you for giving me your support.
