My daddy.
Haha! So on this Valentine's Day, I'm dedicating this post to my father. Because he is the most important man in my life. Even after I get married and stuffs, I think my dad will still be the most important man in my life somehow. Haha! Ok lar, I will love my husband too. But the thing about father is that you can never choose them. And I think that's the most special and awesome part of the father.
I can't choose who my father is. But somehow, he is the most important man in my life. Because everything he does, is all for us. Yes, of course him working is also for his future and for my mum and stuffs. But the reason why he bother to work hard is because of us. And that we are the reasons why he put in all the time and effort in his work even though it makes me not see him often ever since young.
But yea, you know that you are always on his mind and in everything that he does, when he feels like giving up, the motivations to keep him going are my mum, my sister and me. The three important women in his life. Hehe. He damn lucky sia. Got 3 awesome women in his life. HAHA!
But yea, at times, he annoys me so much that I don't even understand. HAHA! The stuffs that he is crazy picky about like drying our hair and stuffs. The most nitty gritty things that he just had to pick on. Yes, they annoy me like crazy. But I know that without him being around to say all these nitty gritty stuffs, it would be so weird. And that I know that him picking on all these stuffs is because he wants the best for us.
Always. He always wants to best for us. And yes, sometimes, he may not agree with what we do. But he will eventually come to terms and let us decide on what we want to do. And he will support whatever decisions we make eventually. He may not like it. But he will come to terms with it.
And I swear, it's so bloody cute when he is concerned about us but he doesn't want to say so he will use a messenger (aka my mum) to tell us stuffs. HAHA! He can be quite lame and annoying at times, but he is pretty much awesome. And very cute. Haha!
So yes, this valentine's day, I want to give a shout out to my dad. Because he has been the most amazing man in my life so far. Though he isn't always around, he would still try his best. And honestly, fathers are out to annoy the hell out of their daughters. HAHA! That's why they are fathers. When they nag on you over the weirdest stuffs. And times you just feel like saying, " Dude, that's not even worth naggy about." Like at least mothers nag for the right reasons. Sometimes. HAHA!
But yep, fathers. They just have that weird power. And I don't know. They are just kinda very important. HAHA! Not kinda, the most. For me. I think I'm really a daddy's girl. Haha! I realise that most of the time, he really doesn't scold me even though I can be quite braddy and stubborn. But I guess that's because I reflect my parents in that way, so they can't really scold me since they are like that too sometimes.
And yes, crazy crazy stubborn. It's so annoying 'cause I can see the stubbornness in him just like my grandfather. Somehow this stubborn thing is really heredity. Like freaking hell sia, all of us are damn stubborn. But I think what's really awesome is how we can never stay angry with each other for long. I think that's one thing I learnt from my parents. Because they can't stay angry with each other for long also. Lol! Like somehow, we just make up because we know that staying angry with each other for so long doesn't make any sense because you are wasting your time and energy to be angry when you can just let it go sometimes. Unless it's really something huge. But usually, we don't get angry with each other over something huge because I don't really know why we don't but I guess we learn to understand each other's perspectives?
I really really think my parents are like crazy supportive humans ever on earth and how they really let us decide how we want to live our life. They won't force us into decisions that we don't like and yea, I really love them lar. Haha!
Anyway, this isn't as nice and proper post as I intended it to be but when it comes from my heart, it's not in perfect English. HAHA! I realise I can only blog in perfect English when I am angry or annoyed. Or sad. Lol! Other than that, it will just be Singlish with thoughts all over the place. But I guess that's why it's good 'cause you can hear me talking. HAHA!
And haha! I really hope we can really go Australia in July. After promising to bring me there since 2004. WOW. That's 10 years ago. HAHA! The father sucks sia. But yes yes, still love him a lot. Still the world's number 1 father. And yes, my mum is the world's number 1 mother. My sister number 1 sister too. Yes lar, they are always number 1 in my heart no matter what.
Because at the end of the day, home is where my heart is and my parents and my sister are the people who I will always go home to.
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